The Allure of Escapism

The Allure of Escapism

I remember when I was a young girl hearing the famous 1970s commercial that touted “Calgon, take me away,” referring to powdered water softener. The commercial would feature a beautiful woman relaxing in her bathtub, taking a break from her chaotic household. It...

What Does Perfect Mental Health Look Like?

One of the first things I realized when I started working with people on their mental health issues was they identified with their stress and were unable to see beyond it. They forgot about the healthy part of them, whether they decided it was covered up or completely...
Can You Really Live Stress Free?

Can You Really Live Stress Free?

Someone on Twitter recently asked me: Is it really a goal to live stress free? Or is it more to manage stress effectively and figure out what level is productive? Her question is a common one that I’d like to clarify and discuss. Living stress free is not a remote...
Put Down the Magnifying Glass

Put Down the Magnifying Glass

Through my work as a therapist and personal experience as a meditator, I can honestly say living life through the filter of thinking alone and cultivating constant opinions and ideas leads to stress in one form or another. It is easy to get fascinated with thinking...