Did you know your glands, organs, tissues, and cells are storage places for emotions and feelings?
According to the scientific research of Dr. Candace Pert, a neuropharmacologist who worked at the NIH and Georgetown University Medical Center, this is exactly what happens to our emotions. Candace stated: “Your body is your subconscious mind. Our physical body can be changed by the emotions we experience.”.
Dr. Pert explains: “A feeling sparked in our mind-or body-will translate as a peptide being released somewhere. [Organs, tissues, skin, muscle and endocrine glands], they all have peptide receptors on them and can access and store emotional information. This means the emotional memory is stored in many places in the body, not just or even primarily, in the brain... Let the emotions bubble up. Let the chips fall where they may… By simply acknowledging emotions, they are expressed. In being expressed, emotions can be released, even old emotions stored in body memory.”
Recently, I worked with three different clients, with different responses to their challenging emotions. The first, and most distressing, was a client who was feeling worthless, helpless, overwhelmed, and fearful. She did not know how to identify these emotions, so her mind distorted the reasons for these feelings. She experienced dark thoughts that were very violent and out of character with her personality. In processing her current life issues in therapy, it became clear that her mind took the emotions and created something to match the intensity. These frightful thoughts had no truth to them whatsoever. They were created by the mind so the mind felt justified to have the emotions. The feelings were real and true, not the thoughts.
The second client I worked with was unable to identify what is truly wrong in his life; his repressed emotions turned into physical ailments that doctors cannot find a cause for. He keeps going to different physicians to find out why he has intense physical pain but becomes frustrated when they state they cannot find anything wrong. He looks for medications to experience temporary relief but gets side effects from the medication. His emotional issues are not being dealt with.
The third example was a client who found her own solution. She shared with me that she felt a lot of anger but could not define it or put it into words to journal about it. She took scraps of newspaper and cardboard pieces and taped it all together to create a paper sculpture. She then took red paint, signifying her anger, and painted the paper sculpture with dramatic strokes. She expressed her feelings through art instead of trying to put it into words. She commented how the process of creating this was cathartic and she no longer was angry.
These three examples show that feelings need to be defined, expressed and released. For one client, it worked very well; for the others, the distressing results of not releasing the emotions were very clear. One thing is for sure: repressing and stuffing strong emotions is not healthy. If you feel excessive worry, frustration about being criticized or ignored, unsupported by others, unsafe in your environment or in conflict over a significant issue, these feelings need to be identified, acknowledged and released.
Three Steps to Emotional Health
A healthy, happy, fulfilling life allows for your thoughts and feelings to be acknowledged, expressed, and released. Disallowing or negating emotions would be akin to trying to stop a thunderstorm from coming, or ignoring the snowstorm that just obliterated your car. Releasing feelings prevents you from holding onto negative mind states or internalizing toxic feelings that can affect your health. Try these suggestions for letting emotions flow out of you and begin to experience a new level of emotional health.
 “Molecules of Emotion: The Science Behind Mind-Body Medicine”, Candace Pert.
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